Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has physical, cognitive, behavioral, social, and philosophical dimensions.
-from Wikipedia.
Girl: why you lied to me when i put all the trust to you!!?
Boy: Sorry honey,i have to choose her,i love her. i really sorry honey. i love u so much too.
Girl: Liar!! U just say that u love me but how could you have someone else behind my back!!
After that,the girl take a lot of pill and found dead because of her grievance in love.Tragic.
everybody has experienced their grievance or else says "destroyance" in their life. me feel the same too. it happen when i really2 trust sumone and have someone to lean on but he/she destroyed all the dreams u have. for example,u really love your boyfriend more than yourself but when it comes to love,he want you to prove your love to him wif ur body.. thats insane for muslim gal to do!!(totally yes!) and suddenly you feel your heart is smashing like piece of glass.
lemme give anotha example of mine. i got my friend and we are so close together but i hate when she manipulate me when she want to face some complicated circumstances. that not soo cool ya know! huhu~
grief also happened when u targeting something,but the thing u want to achieve not fulfill the criteria as u wish. as example, u target that you want to score A in your corporate tax paper but when it comes to final exam and got the result,u just achieve C and very badly when u get C-(which u have to repeat that paper again) so sad.......
for me,i have my own way to deal with it.
First,took a long deep breath and just think positive that all of that sad incident is not happen and pretend that all this drama is fake. be positive.
Second,pray to ALLAH and Tawakkal all the thing happen to ALLAH. only ALLAH knows everything.
Third,go to some quiet place and pull out your energy and yell "i am OK!!!!!" and express your feeling and cry yourself out loud.
thats all for today. =]
lemme give anotha example of mine. i got my friend and we are so close together but i hate when she manipulate me when she want to face some complicated circumstances. that not soo cool ya know! huhu~
grief also happened when u targeting something,but the thing u want to achieve not fulfill the criteria as u wish. as example, u target that you want to score A in your corporate tax paper but when it comes to final exam and got the result,u just achieve C and very badly when u get C-(which u have to repeat that paper again) so sad.......
for me,i have my own way to deal with it.
First,took a long deep breath and just think positive that all of that sad incident is not happen and pretend that all this drama is fake. be positive.
Second,pray to ALLAH and Tawakkal all the thing happen to ALLAH. only ALLAH knows everything.
Third,go to some quiet place and pull out your energy and yell "i am OK!!!!!" and express your feeling and cry yourself out loud.
thats all for today. =]
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